The Note
Time dashes by, and often stomps. ASUS A53E Series Akku I've grown from the child with all the support on the loving family. Survived through my age of puberty with a small number of scars, and married as being a young adult raising three kids through 18 years of marriage. Those were time that dashed leave my head in a spin.
As i snagged myself from spinning spinning out of control, ASUS A53F Series Akku woozy in the dizziness on the 38 years which in fact have just spun out from my control, I found myself dealing with a divorce. At this stage , time began stomping. In the next 8 years as I remarried and divorced again (Listen to all advice given on standing on the rebound, it could be very useful). I am just facing middle age and so desperately working hard to remain time in a normal pace. During this speed, I will be using my time valuably to understand my link with the kids and grandchildren.
I work hard with the time spent with my family to ensure that our everyday life will probably be enriched from the times we spend together. It is vital to stay linked to each one of them. Almost all are different, ASUS A53J Series Akku so time spent with every one is rather different. I've found the assortment keeps in interesting and difficult together.
At this time, I've four wonderful, delightful, ASUS A53JA Series Akku and really energetic grandchildren I have to enjoy (not to ever exclude one angel lost in mourning). Those are the joys of "mam maws" eternal being. The passion I've for my grandkids can best be summed up from the quotation by Jimmy Cart.
"Because grandparents are generally able to love, ASUS A53JB Series Akku guide, and befriend the young without the need to take regular responsibility for them, they are able to often reach out past pride and fear of failure and close the space between generations."
I am released from needing to reach past my pride and concern about breakdown for my grandchildren because of the trust I have got in my children's values, truth, and respect they've. I only give my advice if asked. ASUS A53JC Series Akku Thus giving me the breath of freedom to enjoy all their lives.
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Making relationships magical is really about making yourself magical and sharing that magic with another magical human being.
What does 'magical' mean in a relationship?
It's when all of the energy of your being, heart, mind and soul are in such sync that everything in your life works for YOUR happiness. ASUS A53JH Series Akku Every single part of the seen and unseen nature that surrounds you serves YOUR heart's desire while you are staid in a state of total acceptance.
Wait! That sounds like the norm for a single person in life.
Yes, it is. ASUS A53JQ Series Akku The difference is the 'relationship' part where there is the 'sharing' factor and the moments of highness are multiplied - they grow and are multiplied again and again. Then throw in some of those starter love chemicals and you could write your own romance novel - if you had the words to describe it.
Each relationship has two snowflakes
Each person is unique in the same way that no two snowflakes are alike. ASUS A53JR Series Akku These are broad comparisons and true enough, but have you really stopped and thought about either one?
There is no way to count snowflakes, ASUS A53JT Series Akku but every single one of them was formed under ever-changing ecological conditions. Each tiny crystal is individual due to the infinite combinations of environmental factors that are happening at the exact nano-second it is created.
People have a census as a way to count them and currently there are about 6.9 billion people on the planet - of which roughly 64% are adults. Out of those 4.4 billion adults worldwide, approximately 301.6 million make their home in North America. ASUS A53JU Series Akku Even if you factor out 50% as unavailable you're still left with about 150 million people who are totally unique individuals capable of having a relationship - maybe with you. And…just like a snowflake, each person is inimitable due to the infinite combinations of genetic and sociological factors that created and re-create them every nano-second of their life from beginning to end.
Now can you imagine that out of those 150 million different minds and attitudes, you are going to meet many of them throughout the course of your life if you live in North America alone - depending on your social scene. ASUS A53S Series Akku It just follows that your relationship with each one of them would be unique, because the two souls involved are distinct in every facet of their ever-evolving personalities. And, it's in that distinctiveness that no two souls can ever have the same connection with anyone else - even if they keep meeting over and over at different times in their lives. ASUS A53SD Series Akku THIS is what makes EVERY relationship ultimately unique - and magical as well, if we choose to activate our magical vision.
When the magic wanes
In a partnership or marriage there often comes a point where the magical feelings that brought the couple together seem to have waned and leave a void - from which an interest for NEWNESS and new love emerges. ASUS A53SJ Series Akku Now it comes down to a decision to either end the current relationship, change it up to make it more exciting, pursue a new lover, or all of these.
However, even if this new love is pursued and the old relationship ends or changes down the road, ASUS A53SV Series Akku it is still worth it to turn on our magical vision with our current lovelorn partner and make things as magical as possible.
Science may be able to explain the chemistry, ASUS A53T Series Akku but it is ultimately us that control that, too.
3 Steps to a Magical Relationship
The First Step is for us to take ALL of the responsibility to turn on OUR OWN magical vision no matter what our partner is doing.
Even if we believe our partner is 100% asleep and may have no potential for the magic we are trying to create at this time, it is still our divine responsibility to turn on our magical vision full blast. ASUS A53TA Series Akku We need to see beyond our own projections and whatever lackluster impressions we have of them to SEE the magic and eternal nature that we, ASUS A53U Series Akku and they, truly are.
Here's where we may need a REALITY CHECK: No matter what else, that partner is a SOUL. Yes, they are an eternal being of divine light and eternal grace. Even outside of their awareness of the truth, they exist beyond time and space and have no beginning or end. Their original nature is constant peace, bliss, love, compassion, power and purity - just like us.
Regardless of how unaware of this they may be, ASUS A53Z Series Akku as we watch them playing one of their many parts on this world stage, it is our responsibility to connect with that love in them no matter what.
The Second Step is to become TOTALLY truthful and clear.
As eternal beings, we are first and foremost attuned to truth and wonder. ASUS A54 Series Akku The main reason that our relationships have lost some of their magic is simply because WE have tried to 'fit in' to some ideal or mold outside of that attunement.
If we are to see changes in our lives, it is our responsibly to:
Be in alignment with our own truth by foregoing double standards or being the proverbial 'pot calling the kettle black'. ASUS A54C Series Akku For example, we can't be calling our partner needy and wanting from us when we are also being needy and wanting from them.
Be 100% clear in communicating what is important for us to be ourselves and where we will and will not compromise. ASUS A54H Series Akku Educate and clarify this truth in such a way that our partner understands what we are saying and out of what truth in us the words are coming.
Acknowledge that our partner may not agree with us or may think we have gone off our rocker - we need to communicate and educate nonetheless. ASUS A54HO Series Akku It is OK to agree to differ, but in the spirit of empathy and understanding of each others perspective - especially in the face of strong emotions.
Love's Clarity Talk (LCT)
This talk is best done by both parties, but better one than none if need be.
To ensure we portray 'the lover' inside us clearly, we first need to clarify it for ourselves. A very good way to know that part of us on a conscious level, and with as much clarity as possible, is through representation by words, images and symbols. ASUS A54HR Series Akku ASUS A54HY Series Akku By answering these questions from the purest corners of our heart and recording them visually in some manner, we will enable 'the lover' to reveal clues about how to best express it.
Take a few moments to ponder these questions and wait for the answers to come at any time over the next while - there's no rush. When your heart reveals clues, write notes on paper and/or find images to represent them and then keep them in a special place - but, ASUS A54HY Series Akku never far from your thoughts.
Now you know 'the lover' inside you very well and what it takes for you to sustain it. ASUS A54L Series Akku So, the next part is to compare your answers to your partner's or what you know about your partner if they didn't do Love's Clarity Talk. This will reveal where you both stand at the point you are regrouping from and then you can see where the magic already is and where you might make adjustments for it.
The Third Step is to out a WIN/WIN situation
Let's face it. Each of us is wonderful and we have our own unique 'lover' part to play in this wonderful world. We all have our own trips down love's pathways and it is ALWAYS a personal and sometimes secretive experience, ASUS A54LY Series Akku because we are the only ones who can read our own signs.
Knowing how unique we truly are and being confident in the fact that we are eternal and beyond need allows us to RELAX and focus on our charm. If we don't focus on our own sense of personal charm we become obsessed by someone else's and start believing we NEED to charm them to get it from them.
What to do with your LCT results
1. Does your life path connect with your partner's life path in the sense that you both have similar priorities, ASUS A83 Series Akku motivations and intentions?
2. If NOT, how can you both have your needs met?
Win/win situations are where you bring out the best in each other. ASUS A83B Series Akku It's when the natural consequences of your connectivity are enrichment and empowerment for BOTH of you.
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Created by: lanyuhua2011 on January 12th 2012, 09:58.
Last updated by: lanyuhua2011 on January 12th 2012, 09:58.
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